Avoiding Sick People
It’s that time of year, where all of the viruses and infections are going around. Trust me, I just experienced it with my oldest son having strep, and I think he shared. Usually I try to avoid people that are sick, but that’s obviously not an option when your child, or someone you live with is sick.
I’ve been told that I’ve said rude things to people, without really meaning to. When someone says they are sick, while we’re all hanging out, I’m like, “Oh no. You gotta keep a 15-foot radius away from me. Stay away from my imaginary bubble!” Someone got his or her feelings hurt when I said this, and I obviously was trying to make it funny, so I wasn’t being rude, but I guess it came off rude.
So I’m going to try and explain on the WHY I won’t willingly go around sick people, as I’m sure others with autoimmune illnesses are the same way. Basically, with MS, our immune system is mistaking our nerves as bad bacteria, and attacking. So, naturally, I don’t want to have my immune system kick up to fight a virus/infection, cause that’s when it starts misfiring.
Basically, it’s nothing against you personally, if you’re sick. I’m just trying to make sure that I don’t end up in a infusion clinic for 3-days straight on IV Steroids, because let me tell you, some people think it’s relaxing and the atmosphere can be relaxing, but why you’re there in the first place is NOT relaxing. You had to get an MRI to see if you were in a flare, most likely, and those are in no way RELAXING. And then there is the AWFUL taste you get in your mouth, while getting IV Steroids. Which by the way, if you ever have to get an infusion of steroids again, get a big bag of jolly ranchers, or something like that. It helps with the nasty taste in your mouth.
Now let me tell you, some people things I’m overly cautious about avoiding sick people, like I have a time-frame of when I will go around them, depending on when they started meds, the last time they had a fever, etc. I’m not taking any chances. I’ve gotten to the point that I don’t really care if people things I’m a germaphobe, or crazy. I’m doing what I feel I need to do, so that I don’t end up laid up sick, or in an MRI machine, or getting IV steroids.
Also, from experience, if someone is sick with a virus/infection, and I somehow get sick because I was around them, shared a drink, etc. I will not only end up with what they had, but 10 times worse. Not even exaggerating here, it happened last year, around this time actually. My husband is a firefighter/EMT… and they are obviously exposed to illnesses. Even though they try their hardest to kill all the germs they come into contact with, it’s not always 100%. So there was something going around the department, and James, my husband, ended up getting it. Now most of you know, you can have the virus/infection for a little bit without showing signs. So I contracted it, before James started having symptoms.
Needless to say, I ended up with Pneumonia, and they were telling me that I might have to be hospitalized. Yeah, no thanks, I’ll pass. This doesn’t even begin to cover the increase in symptoms that can be experienced when your immune system is fighting an infection/bacteria.
Lets not forget that if you’re getting an infusion of Tysabri, like myself, I can’t get my infusion if I’m fighting an infection. So then there is all of that nonsense that can be affected as well. I know for most, if you get sick, you go to the doctor, rest take meds, and then you’re better. That’s not how it works for me.
Something else that I also want to talk about, that is still on the topic… and can be used in different obstacles of MS as well. So let me just answer the question that I get asked, when people see how crazy I am about not getting sick…. “No, I am not overreacting. The things I am trying to avoid are not being blown out of proportion.”
Obviously, there are people out there that think I’m overreacting to certain situations, or making things to seem worse than they really are. But until you see it first hand, you will NOT understand. My father-in-law that lives with us didn’t fully understand it until he saw what happened first hand. Now, if someone at his work is sick, he tells him or her to keep their distance from him.
Now with that being said, I won’t have the same ‘reaction’ to every situation. It all depends on what illness is going around, etc. It could just keep me in bed for a certain amount of time, or it could cause a flare up. There is no telling what can happen, and the unknown is one of the scariest parts for me when dealing with MS.
All right, that’s all for now. Since I’m currently not feeling good, and I think my son shared his strep throat with me…. Do you see why this topic came up? I know I’ve written about it before in ‘Tis’ the Season’, but I wanted to brush up on the topic.
Until next time!
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