Relationships are hard enough to maintain when everyone involved is healthy and financially secure. Throw MS into the mix and it can leave relationships in ruins. I'm so sorry you find yourself in this position. May I be so bold as to offer advice even though you have not asked for it?
Please call the NMSS and ask to speak to one of their patient advocates, called MS Navigators. They are knowledgeable about what is available to help and can get your on a smoother path - 1-800-344-4867. This is a valuable resource and costs nothing. Connecting with others, such as the people here, you may come up with surprising options. ~Laura