The muscle of my rectum and anus are so tight that I know I have to pass my stool but I can't.i take stool softener and then pass supostrery but after wards had to do manually.i keep disposable gloves and gel etc in my toilet
I am sure dealing with these spasms are no fun to manage. But, I am glad you have found a way to manage the issue. It may not be easy, but it sounds like your method is working pretty effectively for you and that's the important part.