How do you manage housework with MS?

I saw an article on here once about getting behind on housework and it explained how it is then nearly impossible to catch back up without help. I don’t have the most supportive husband and would like him to understand that it’s not really something I can help. He thinks I’m simply choosing not to do it. In his defense, I was very type A before MS struck. I get depressed about the condition of my home because I still think that way even though I am not able to act on it.