My husband has had MS for over 10yrs. He's just getting to the point where he's giving in and getting in the chair. He needed to be in it s while ago but u can't tell someone to stop walking and get in the chair. He falls, stumbles, struggles for every step. He uses walker,scooter and had now agreed to get in the chair. I feel selfish because I want him to go ahead and give in and get catheters, wheelchairs, handicap vans,lifts, whatever else. So it will be easier for me. It's very selfish but I'm EXHAUSTED. I'm tired, stressed and in desperate need of a break from reality. But that's not gonna happen so I'm at least glad I can vent.