Learning to focus on what you can control and letting go of the rest is a gift to yourself. Acceptance isn't about giving up, it's moving on. Self-acceptance is about being who you are, not who you want to be. Appreciate and value yourself at all times, not just the good times. If you'd like to read about some strategies for acceptance, here's my link https://mswellnessproject.com/self-acceptance-means-embracing-yourself-unconditionally/